Tuesday, July 19, 2011
29 weeks pregnant and sad with partner, can my sadness affect the baby ?
I am 29 weeks and my Hub never says sorry. Since I am pregnant we've been fighting much more than before, and I just feel he is very insensitive and thinks all my behavior, when I am tired, and when I don't do stuff that he expects me to do it's all being an excuse. He is always getting hard on me and he is not understanding. Yesterday was my birthday, I gave him several ideas how to make me happy, write me a love letter, spend some time with me, but he decided to do nothing. He knows when my birthday is but he never does anything on the date. It's always later presents or dinners or something. After a boring half boring day at home we fought and then he just ignored me, and said I like to be sad and started to chat with friends. I then explained to him I was expecting a bit more from him on my birthday and he just ignore what i've said. (he saw me crying but did nothing) and Later He tried to come and talk to me, but he did not apologize, which made me even more sad. Now I've been crying and very upset, cause I am tired that he is being insensitive and never apologizes for anything. After spoke to his mom he ask me to go out with him, to have dinner since was my birthday, but I got even more upset cause it was his mom's idea not his. then He comes around now nicely but do not say sorry. He wanted me to go somewhere with him just so he doesn't stay alone waiting, but I am still so upset with him that I don't feel being around of him so much. He hugs me and kisses me and try to talk to me about other stuff (not my feelings or what happened) which makes me very upset and I think he hopes I will forget what he has done. Can my baby suffer because i am sad ? what shall I do ? I am upset cause i am pregnant and because i am just tired of him not apologizing, not saying so much he loves me and all this stuff. I am worried about my baby.
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